the chain effect

Have you ever thought about "How come this person is....thus and thus?"

and became more and seem to have shaped into that person' s character

or

You heard someone claims, "I really hate me, I despise him."

and

found out that he was just like the person he hates

He seems to have moulded into the one he hates.

or

You heard, " Hey, why did you.....thus and thus."

but

you found out or notice that this person is

not much better or even worse

and yet dare to raise up her voice

or

A person wants to change and help someone in distress

But before able to help, fall into the same pit

and face the same problems

Do these people really purposely or deliberately morph into these unwanted characters?

How does this change come about?

Where is the turning point?

Do they notice that?

or

Perhaps, am I over sensitive?

I refer to the bible to find out the cause and cure of it