you have character! (i like your attitude!)

what is the difference between character and attitude?

is there any difference?

if there is any, does it matter?

what would it impact?

character equals attitude

or character versus attitude

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character is deep inside our soul and mind

shape and sharpen over time

based on principles and conscience

moulded by God

refreshed by Holy Spirit

attitude is what is reflected

and showed in the presence of people

attitude is presentation

what we want others to perceive.....

perhaps, not on purpose or not for the sake of others

but attitude is a response

of a question, criticism, praise

attitude is like a -------------- bridge------------ between

outer world and our inside mentality

it will influence how we take things, consider matters

and our emotional reaction

a good character does not mean that we will have good attitude

not that they are contradicting

but because we are sometimes boundaried

by certain values and priorities

and we cannot take things astride or calmly

a good attitude need to be in place

so that things can move smoothly and accordingly

without outburst or negative force

when we have good attitude, does it mean we have clean, sleek character?

of course not,

by having a good attitude

we will be more accepted by others

people judge by outer appearance, conduct and speech

it may shape us to be more cunning, condescending and ...

even if we are not serious about something

but by having a good attitude, we seem to looke serious about it.

at this stage,

i felt that i am being unfair to stress that attitude is a mask

a true good attitude should arises from good character

but can we see a good character?

but we can see a good attitude

attitude can be seen spontaneously

character can be seen after some time

if you want to see one's character, give him a position.

if you want to see one's attitude, provoke him with a sensitive issue