i just can't

are you single and available
or attached, in an relationship?

from further observation and communication
i found a third category of people

inability to be in a relationship

could not be involved in physical intimacy

never thought of being married or having children

not promiscious or fooling around

restrain or abstain from sexual misconducts

totally straight and normal

i have seen an article of thus in a newspaper
there are couples coming together
leaving in the comfort of the same house
without sexual intercourse
they are just enjoying the companionship and the trust
weird as it is....
but it is true.....
in foreign countries, there are people who embrace such culture
but in Asian countries, people of thus prefer to remain single, a loner ranger with usually active lifestyle (going places and enjoying life)

i have such acquantainces
i have been wondering for a long time now....

they are attractive and beautiful
accomplishing or not much under-achiever than the people near them

usually talented and artistic
never discuss of their relationships or sexual needs
may have crushes in the earlier years but failed in the process
i even wonder are they gay, impotent, pervert or .....?

i am sorry that i say that

hmmm......i love these people so much
that i hope that they could experience love too

scooping in, it is fear that resides inside them:

(1) lost a loved one before (a father, a mother or....)
(2) been rejected (emotional souls they are..)
(3) seeing too many ( breakups, divorce, children abandonment, single parents, mankind suffering, orphans, mutated children, mentally depressed or nervous breakdown )

it seems that they carry the load of this world on their own back
the pain of it surpasses the joy of being with someone that they love

if you live happily, i am happy for you

you will always be in my heart

love is not possessing

when you need me, i will always be there for you

do these concepts really make sense to you?

for me:

if i love you, i want to be with you (short and simple)