courtesy....

i am learning to appreciate the courtesy of the japanese
from the dramas i have watched recent days

they respect the elders, same ranking collegues and their juniors
always bow down and give their respect
it is a value, we , Chinese should learn and remember

no matter what the elders and simply anyone, provokes us
with speech or actions
any sensible Japanese would not speak back harshly
but always act in moderate and respectable ways
the emotional intelligence is what i see as the highest in the whole world

i am so impressed

in a way,
i was stunned when some of the roles are degraded and abused verbally
yet, they answer their abuser in a calm tone and with a smiling expression
that is what i want to learn
able to conquer emotions and come above every negative notations

that is the application of Christian speech