be hopeful...........

responses, replies and answers
are our reactions towards circumstances surrounding and within us
under certain conditions

i realized that one's thinking is individualistic
and does not necessary means that others think alike or
have the same mentality and understanding too

your opinion is yours
my thoughts are mine

there are too many times
we have made a silly mistake
it is called preconceived notion
we equalize a word or a facial expression to mean something that we have gave a certain meaning to it
as: non-smiling as non-friendly / quiet as not sociable
many times it is not likely such

because human are very tangible and flexibile creatures
there are many sides to a person and
different personality will arise
and definitely, a person changes and develops with time

our responses, replies and answers
should be in positive light
contain hope and belief for the person we interact with
be loving and understanding

cut the slack
and always think the good for others

many times, they mean good
but our reply backfires
and affect in "negative force."

it is not what we comprehend or what others intent to say
but it is in our responses

we could turn any situation around for good
if we are in a "hopeful" thinking mode